If you want to keep your relationship intact, you have to be honest with yourself about your behavior. Are you: Finding excuses to go over to her parents' house?
If your eyes are wandering toward the mother, it usually means there is a "spark" missing in your primary relationship. Work on reigniting the chemistry with your girlfriend. Focus on the things she has that the mother doesn't —their shared history, her specific personality, and your future together. My Girlfriend-s Mom Is Much Finer than Her- So ...
You are having problems with your girlfriend. She nags, she’s insecure, she’s messy. Her mom, meanwhile, is gracious, put-together, and laughs at your jokes. Of course she seems finer – you don’t live with her . You’re comparing your girlfriend’s 3 PM sweatpants reality to her mom’s 7 PM dinner-party best. If you want to keep your relationship intact,